Since 2001, the HeartLight Center – a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization – has welcomed thousands of grieving people just like you. Together, we have created an open, compassionate community that offers strength, peace, and the support you need to move forward.
Through support groups and education, we are committed to giving you the resources you need to help you feel heard, seen, and validated.
Our mission at HeartLight Center is to provide meaningful and accessible grief support and education to the community.

The HeartLight Center Story
After working with grieving individuals, families, and those who care for them, Jennifer McBride became acutely aware that a great need existed for a program that would serve those who did not fit into what our community offers for care. She presented this to Valerie Horan, a funeral director for Horan and McConaty Funeral Services. Valerie had a likeminded vision and shared with Jennifer her hope for a candle in the window that would welcome grieving people to come and share their stories. Together, with the full support of John Horan and a dedicated board of directors, Jennifer and Valerie developed HeartLight Center, and opened its doors to the community in 2003.
Starting with just one monthly group for grieving people, offering community and support during some of the most difficult times in their lives, HeartLight Center programs have now grown to more than 10 center-led support groups, a number of community-run support groups, special events and workshops, and education and training for professional and volunteer caregivers.
Jennifer McBride retired as director of Heartlight Center in 2020, and continues to be a champion for the needs of the bereaved individuals and families in our community. Under the direction of our Executive Director, Jenn Flaum, HeartLight Center continues with our mission to grow and serve.

Meet Our Team
Jenn Flaum, LCSW, MBA
Executive Director
Jenn is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker holds a master’s degree in Business Administration from Regis University.
Jenn is drawn to HeartLight Center’s mission recognizing that grief impacts all of us at some point in our lives and having support and community can transform our experiences. Jenn is committed to working with professionals who serve people who are grieving to increase awareness and education around grief and loss by building meaningful relationships and connections.
Jenn enjoys working as a group facilitator and presenter, offering grief support and education to individuals, professionals and caregivers. She has experience in individual counseling, group facilitation, program development and healthcare administration. Jenn is available for providing presentations to organizations and professionals.
You can contact Jenn at jflaum@heartlightcenter.org


Allison Gary, LPC, MA
Programming & Education Director
Allison is a therapist in private practice licensed in Colorado and specializes in grief and loss counseling. Allison’s personal history with grief and loss brought her to the field of mental health. With a Master’s from Regis University in mental health counseling, Allison brings to HeartLight Center a diverse professional skill set in operations work as well as compassion and caring for supporting bereaved individuals and a commitment to grief education aligning with HeartLight Center’s mission. Allison enjoys facilitating and presenting to share and connect with others in the group setting and is dedicated to supporting individuals so that their grief can be shared, explored, experienced and integrated into life moving forward, while not losing the connections and memories that are meaningful. Allison has experience personally and professionally with dementia/Alzheimer’s care, suicide loss, pet loss, childhood bereavement, as well as use of a variety of modalities and coping strategies for managing life after significant loss. Allison is the supervisor for the HeartLight Practicum Program and is available for professional presentations for organizations.
Allison is honored to work with HeartLight to provide support during vulnerable times in the lives of others, to help create a sense of safety and community. You are welcome to contact Allison for questions about programs, services and resources at allison@heartlightcenter.org.
Megan Hogan
Director of Outreach and Development
Megan holds a bachelor’s of innovation in marketing and communication from the University of Colorado Colorado Springs. Megan is new to HeartLight Center and is excited to be a part of an amazing community. Although new to the grief field, she is committed to spreading the word about HeartLight Center and making sure that everyone gets the resources they deserve. Megan is passionate about communicating the support that HeartLight offers through social media, events, and genuine human connections. She is committed to providing meaningful opportunities for community engagement and service. She is excited to be a part of HeartLight Center and ensuring that everyone knows that the light is always on and how to seek out support for your grief. You can reach Megan at mhogan@heartlightcenter.org”


Carrie Bauer, MS
Program Assistant & Community Liaison for the Western Slope
Carrie has worked in the end-of-life and grief field for over a decade, and has learned that her passion is supporting grievers of all ages. She graduated from the University of Northern Iowa with a Bachelor’s in Social Work and Marian University with a Master’s in Thanatology. Carrie has worked at hospices in Colorado and Iowa as bereavement coordinator and volunteer coordinator, as well as the director of a bereavement program within a funeral home in Des Moines, Iowa. Carrie’s other passion is educating professionals and community members on various grief topics and has had the opportunity to present at conferences both on the local and national level. Carrie is honored to join the HeartLight team to provide support and resources to those grieving. Carrie is available for providing presentations.
You are welcome to contact Carrie for questions about programs and services at cbauer@heartlightcenter.org
Genna Reeves, Ph.D.
Community Liaison for New Mexico
Genna is an INELDA-trained death doula and grief coach practicing privately through Invictus Grief and Loss Services in Northern New Mexico. Her expertise lies in grief support, end-of-life planning, funeral planning, and the creation of legacy projects. She has trained with David Kessler to become a Certified Grief Educator.
With a diverse background in education, research, and support work, Genna brings a unique skill set to support others in grief.
Genna is an active member of several organizations in the end-of-life care and grief support field, including the National End-of-Life Doula Alliance and the Grief Coalition of Albuquerque, New Mexico. She serves as Co-Chair of the Global Wellness Institute’s Dying Well Initiative. Genna is experienced in group facilitation, program development, creative expressions of grief, community education, LGBTQ+ grief support, and Survivors of Suicide programming. Her compassionate approach to meeting others where they are in their grief journey provides a steady port in the storm. If you have any questions for Genna about resources and programs available in New Mexico, please contact her at greeves@heartlightcenter.org


Our Facilitators and Volunteers

Barb
Facilitator

Brian
Facilitator

Christina
Facilitator

Connie
Facilitator

DJ
Facilitator

Jenny
Facilitator

John
Facilitator

Karen
Facilitator

Laura
Facilitator

Les
Facilitator

Luisa
Facilitator

Maggie
Facilitator

Mary Ellen
Facilitator

Michael
Facilitator

Missie
Facilitator

Molly
Facilitator

Sandra
Facilitator

Gretchen
Facilitator
HeartLight Center Board of Directors
Jamie McConaty, Board Chair
Jennifer Hay
Stephanie Heitkemper
Effie Kavadas Wilson
June Seppa
Marlene Seward
Jen Thomas
John Veldkamp
Michael Wellensiek
Keith Williams
